πΏ Why Letting Go Feels So Impossible Sometimes
Ever tried to tell yourself, “Just move on!” — only to find your brain replying, “Lol, no thanks.”? π✨ Letting go isn’t just a choice. It’s a psychological process that’s far more layered than we realize. --- π‘ So... why does letting go feel so impossible? π 1️⃣ The Power of Emotional Attachment When we invest time, energy, or emotion into something (a relationship, a job, a dream π«), we form a bond. This bond isn’t just in our heart — it’s wired into our brain’s reward system π§ . Letting go feels like breaking a circuit that kept us feeling secure. π 2️⃣ The Sunk Cost Fallacy Our brain hates waste. If we’ve given months or years to someone or something, it feels harder to leave because we think: “I’ve come this far — how can I quit now?” ⏳ The truth? Staying in something unhealthy doesn't recover what’s lost — it costs us more. π 3️⃣ Fear of the Unknown π«️ Letting go means facing uncertainty — and our brain prefers predictable discomfort over scary change. It clings...