π “Was It Really Enough?” Or Is That Just Guilt Talking?
Some days, you give your all. Some days, you hold yourself back. But in both — you hear that same voice: “I could’ve done better.” “Maybe I didn’t do enough.” Sound familiar? You're not alone. And you're not broken. --- Sometimes, that feeling stems from old wiring — π§ Being praised only when you excelled π§ Internal pressure to perform to be loved π§ Fear that if you slow down, you’ll fall behind π§ Guilt when you're not constantly achieving In these moments, you need reassurance — not self-criticism. πΏ You did enough. πΏ You tried — even if it was quiet. πΏ You showed up — and that matters. --- But let’s be honest... Not every “I didn’t do enough” is false. Sometimes, your mind knows you held back — not from laziness, but from fear, overwhelm, or avoidance. π And that’s okay too — but only if you face it. ✨ Ask gently: Did I do what I could? Did I give myself a fair chance? Or did I talk myself out of showing up fully? You don’t have to shame yourself. But you also do...